Thursday, July 3, 2008

The Way He Expresses Himself

These days, Aryan does certain things which make us flow in the oceans of positive and negative emotions all at the same time and some times we do not know how to react. Trying to list a few of them :

Anupam and I have been taking turns for having dinner. Anupam used to have his dinner while I fed Aryan and then I used to have dinner after they are done.

But from past few days , Aryan wants to eat with papa. And so he bangs on to papa's plate as soon as papa sits with the plate. Anupam happily tries to feed him. But No. Aryan wants to change places. He wants to feed papa and to himself. Though it is a lovely scene , he messes up the food, Anupam and himself.And leaves his papa irritated.

Don't you think I am spared. The story repeats when I sit to eat. I really love the way he feeds me lovingly and the way he makes a "Yummy , isn't it" face as the spoon goes in my mouth ,exactly the way I do when I feed him. Yeah but then after the process is done I need to clean up all the mess.

Some times while I play with him he feels an overflow of emotions. He expresses himself by showering with kisses.At times, he holds my face in his hands and look at me with loads of love. While at times , he doesnot know what to do. And so he hits me , scratches me , bite me and pull my hair. I really don't know how to control him at that time.And he leaves me irritated as well.

Mornings when I go for a bath, after Aryan and Anupam are already ready, he cries like hell. Sometimes Anupam is able to distract him but at times , he cries like I have gone forever. One way I feel how much he wants me , at the same time I feel like , can I not even bath at peace.

These days during sleep , he loves to cling to his papa.With papa not being habitual of Aryan disturbing him during sleep, he gets irritated.

6 comments:

~nm said...

Ab betu pyaar dikha raha hai to isme irritate hone ki kya baat hai? :D

Let him do that! Don't stop him!

Lijy said...

""Some times while I play with him he feels an overflow of emotions. He expresses himself by showering with kisses.At times, he holds my face in his hands and look at me with loads of love. While at times , he doesnot know what to do. And so he hits me , scratches me , bite me and pull my hair.""

Ditto... Jason does the same thing. You just dont know what to do at times like these.

What I say to myself is... 'This is another phase and I am gonna miss it when its over. So just enjoy it while you get the chance"

Mama - Mia said...

:)

easiest yo say its just a phase!!

hopefully it indeed is!! :)

enjoy!! :p

cheers!

Monika said...

Oh , so true.

Aryan said...

Visiting here after a long time....Soo cool aryan is ..He is growing..
Even my Aryan like stars and you will see his grandma with him cutting stars in color paper...
Can't believe both aryan's are turning two...my hair has already greyed now.....what about yours
AM

PG said...

I think Lijy has put it to the point:
"What I say to myself is... 'This is another phase and I am gonna miss it when its over. So just enjoy it while you get the chance"

That is the best you can do. I rememeber the hardest and most difficult phase with Rishab was between age one and two, or two and a half. Things are much better now. There are other difficulties now, but that is mroe about my being impatient than his being difficult. :)
Can't believe that Aryan will be turning two. He is such a darling I think. All these activities may be driving you crazy, but for me as an outsider, really cute! and smart!